I like to go backwards and read about what I did over the holidays each year, and that’s the primary reason for this roundup. I won’t be offended if you don’t read it (but feel free).
Because I started working at NYU this year, it was the first year since college where I had the entire week between Christmas and New Year’s off without having to take any vacation days. I highly recommend working at a university. Or at least this one.
Holiday, Part 1 - Albany
My break really began on the Thursday night before Christmas. We wrapped up early at the office and headed to a dinner with our printing house at Aroma, where we ate very good food, including dessert. I ducked out early to see Margot at the Wedding at the Angelika with Tom - we greatly enjoyed it - and then we headed uptown to see Sweeney Todd at the midnight screening in Times Square. Let me warn you now: if you see a musical film at midnight in New York, you will be surrounded by mildly obnoxious musical theater students. Thankfully, nobody sang along with the film.
We got home somewhere around 3am; I’d arranged to work from home on Friday. I woke up feeling lousy and gradually felt lousier throughout the day, until I felt so sick that I took a long, painful nap and ended up skipping Adam and Renee’s Christmas party that night (which was something I was looking forward to). Tom was good to me and stayed quiet and made me soup.
On Saturday morning I wasn’t feeling any better - it felt distinctly like when I had mono two years ago at Christmas - but I dragged myself out of bed and we dragged our suitcase, camera bag, hanging bag, my purse, and three bags full of wrapped Christmas presents to Penn Station, where we got on a train and mercifully sat and read and napped until we arrived in Albany just before 3pm. We hadn’t been home since June.
There was snow everywhere - the first white Christmas in a long time. Mom and Sean picked us up at the train station and brought us home, where we finished decorating the Christmas tree. Sean and Tom and Sean’s friends headed off to see I Am Legend that night at the local theater, but I watched a bit of the Andy Griffith Show and went to bed.
I was still feeling pretty sick on Sunday, but we got up and went to church. My grandmother drove in from Boston and came with us. The kids’ Christmas musical had been postponed due to snow the previous Sunday night, so instead, they performed it during the morning service. It was cute, though we were a little disappointed at not getting to sing Christmas carols. :) We went to brunch with family friends afterwards, then headed home for a little while before going to a friend’s birthday party. Tom and I came home early again. I think we watched a movie? But I can’t remember what it was.
Monday was Christmas Eve day. I was feeling so sick at that point that I ended up in urgent care with some strange and disconcerting symptoms, and they ran tests (the results just came back and they were negative) and gave me antibiotics. Perplexing and annoying.
In the evening we went to have dinner with Mom’s family (my grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins) at Outback. We’ve had Christmas Eve dinner with them every year since I can remember, and it’s one of my favorite traditions, even if I wasn’t feeling well enough to eat anything. Dinner ran so long that we missed church, but we came home and watched the Behold the Lamb of God DVD I gave Tom for Christmas (that’s the Andrew Peterson concert we went to see a few weeks ago in Connecticut), which was probably equally as good, even if it didn’t involve candles. Everyone loved the concert. I can’t emphasize enough how excellent that CD really is.
We woke up on Christmas and ate breakfast (Tom made some very fancy and yummy scrambled eggs, which I was actually able to eat), and then the whole family piled in to open presents. It was a lot of fun. We have small cousins in our family, and children are fabulous at Christmas. My small cousin Johnny was delighted with the broom he received. We’re a strange bunch.
When they left, we cleaned up a bit, then opened our presents to each other (lots of books, great CDs, and I got this dress, which I love completely). We headed to our long-time friends’ house for dinner and ended up singing the Messiah loudly and enthusiastically as I frenetically tried to keep up with the piano part. Ever tried to pound through fugue-like accompaniment at a breakneck pace? Good thing we all know the entire Messiah by heart from years of spending every Friday night at practice.
We spent Wednesday in Albany; I had breakfast with my good friend Sarah, and we had lunch with Bill, my former boss when I worked at the church and one of the most wonderful people you’ll ever meet. We wound up the evening that night watching A Christmas Story (you’ll shoot your eye out). And on Thursday, we got up rather early to head home.
Holiday, Part 2 - New York City
We spent the greater part of Thursday and Friday at home. Tom ducked out and bought Guitar Hero III for the Mac with his Christmas money at some point and rocked out for most of the weekend as I sat and finished a book and watched old episodes of The Office on Hulu and What Not to Wear on the TLC website.
And on Friday night, we saw There Will Be Blood in a sold-out theater (we’re so blessed to live in New York, with one of only two theaters playing the film nationwide right now), which duly bowled us over. A true epic, and Daniel Day-Lewis fully deserves the Best Actor Oscar that I certainly hope he’ll receive this year.
On Saturday we met up with Angela and saw Persepolis, not bad, but disappointing overall. After the film we went to Think Coffee and played Scrabble - I won, but only by about five points - then headed home and watched Rescue Dawn, which was, well, interesting, and good. That Christian Bale. What a guy.
By Sunday I was feeling fully recovered, and after church we headed to brunch at Cafe Asean with a herd of people that included a baby, a toddler, and a four-year-old. Hijinks ensued. When the dust cleared, Todd, Angela, Tom and I headed out to Brooklyn and sat around eating bits and pieces, drinking a Pinot Noir, and watching The Hoax, that Richard Gere film about the guy who wrote a fake biography of Howard Hughes. It was not very good, but it was pretty entertaining.
Monday was, of course, another holiday, and we went to our friends Holly and Christy’s apartment to ring in the New Year with “southern libations” and a handful of people who we didn’t know but do now. We headed to their roof to watch the fireworks and shout “Happy New Year” to everyone on the other rooftops all over Brooklyn. Marvelously festive, and we walked home through the lit-up brownstones around 3:00 am, when it appeared everyone else had just gotten tired and was walking home as well.
On Tuesday we rose late and went to Angela’s, where we ate deliciously well with a small gathering and finished welcoming the New Year with The Lives of Others, which we’d seen almost precisely a year ago but Angela and Katie had not seen. Thankfully, they thought it was wonderful. Which it is.
So that is how we brought in 2008, and yesterday was my first day back at work. Tom knocked out a shift at the co-op early yesterday morning and then hung out with Amy (hi Amy!), who is in town for a few weeks, resting from LA. By the time I got home last night, they’d concocted some delicious salad with roasted salmon and homemade tomato-mango salsa of which I couldn’t get enough. Amy left around 8pm and we watched The Page Turner, which turned out to be a fabulously creepy-ish film that plays very much like a French version of The Talented Mr. Ripley, and if you see it, you’ll know what I mean.
We have lovely plans for gatherings on Friday and Saturday night, and the Museum of the Moving Image is having a Paul Thomas Anderson festival this weekend, so we’re hoping to make it up to Astoria to see Punch-Drunk Love on the big screen on Sunday. Marvelous.